Date Archives 2010

Silver Style

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[Photos and Text Ari Seth Cohen]

I was in the middle of carrying my groceries home when I saw this amazing woman in the corner of my eye. I quickly ran to my house dropped my bags on the floor and darted out to see if I could still find this wonderful lady. I was relieved when I saw her just a few blocks ahead and I quickly made my way to to ask her for some photos. She told me that she dresses up every day, notice how she coordinates her silver nails with the buttons on her top,her glittery belt, and her sandals. She was in a hurry, just coming from the grocery store herself, but I was so glad to even have a moment of her time!

Dress Up with Ilona Smithkin

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[Photos Ari Seth Cohen, Text: Maayan Zilberman]

You might recognize Ilona’s beautiful face from when we posted her a few weeks ago after meeting on the sidewalk in the West Village. You might ALSO recognize her from this week’s issue of New York Magazine‘s feature where she is photographed for “The Lookbook”. Since so many of New York Magazine’s readers have asked us about her, I wanted to share more of what she’s shared with me. I’ve had the opportunity to talk with Ilona quite frequently now that we are friends, and would love to share with you how she puts together her stage-worthy outfits and what’s behind those enigmatic eyelashes…


Ilona Royce Smithkin, 90, was born in Poland and lived for some time in Berlin, then moved to New York with her parents when she was a teenager. Ilona’s interests were in painting and drawing, and since moving away from what she calls a “strict past”; she had the freedom to study at The Art Students League where she would find her true path.
(In Part 2 of the Ilona Series, I’ll share more of her artwork and share her advice on when to show your first paintings, how to heal your pain with drawing, and where to find the best light in the house.)


Ilona’s philosophy for “building an outfit” is to mix and match the purpose of garments and to reinvent items to better suit your body type and coloring.
For example, one day she’d been excused from a traffic violation so she bought some pieces from a shop across the street and converted them into a new outfit, since sometimes “the way it is is simply bland”. She turned the tunic part upside down to create a new top, sewing together a neckline out of the hem. Then she tied the arms together in front as though it was a wrap dress, and ta-dah… a look a la Diane von Furstenberg!


Many readers have been asking about Ilona’s homemade eyelashes, which for the past 35-40 years she has handmade and applied every morning. Snipped from her natural waves, her exaggerated lashes change in tone as her color changes, and are accented with a swoosh of green shadow.
“I don’t wear anything except my eyelashes and shadow… oh, and lipstick. But I don’t wear makeup.”
I asked if living in New York after the war inspired her to use more color or to dress more vibrantly- Ilona says, “It was more about my change of lifestyle, a less strict time than living in Berlin during the 30’s and 40’s. I only wear something based on how i feel… style is in theback of my mind, but it’s based on my mood.”
“I’ve always had the same style because it’s loose, it’s my feeling of FREEDOM… I’m free and I’m open!”


Ten years ago, at the age of 80, Ilona started perforing (in a miniskirt and heels!) and every August headlines the “Eyelash Cabaret” in Provincetown, MA. (Ilona has always loved to dance, but it’s only more recently that she felt the confidence to get up on stage). We rifled through some of her favorite dance outfits, and one of them was a shirt she was holding aside as a gift for me. She showed me how to wear it “Ilona Style”, tied in the front to cinch the waist. She said even though it’s a bold print, it’s a neutral because it goes with everything.


When a woman is in the presence of a true beauty such as Ilona, it’s hard not to ask for makeup tips or (dare I say) a “makeover”. She says I can do the eyelashes like her, but that they really wouldn’t suit my proportions.
Ilona never tried to emulate anyone else’s style as she was developing her look. She says, “If you try to imitate too much, then you look like nothing. Never compare yourself, YOU are YOU.”


Instead of giving me her signature look, she suggests a bit of green shadow and some Shu Uemura lipstick given to her by a close friend who is a makeup artist.
“All the dark colors are back in, but don’t use colors that are too deep for you, it makes you look older.” We end up mixing colors at her painting station, as though she is painting a portrait.


Ilona’s talents are many, but one of the most common requests she gets is to capture “just the eyes” for a portrait.


Ilona has lived for over 50 years above what used to be “The Beatrice Inn” nightclub. She noticed all the fashion trends come and go, and says “some of them look beautiful just because they are young… like springtime….” But she asks, “Do you really like it? Or is it because of fashion?… You have to live for more than the moment, but this you learn with AGE”…
“When I was younger I was insecure and tried anything unusual to be noticed. Now, with perspective, I can even wear something neutral and be comfortable in my skin.”


“I do love when they call me sassy… I flirt a lot, but it’s not about having, it’s about appreciating.”
Ilona talks about “never buying green bananas”, it means to live for today and not to wish for something in the future. She says, ” I feel beautiful inside and that’s beautiful enough for me.”

Ilona on Art & Sex and the City

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[Photos: Ari Seth Cohen, Text: Maayan Zilberman]

In the previous post you heard Ilona Royce Smithkin’s style tips, advice on eye makeup, and instructions on how to convert a slip into a Grecian blouse by turning it upside down. Now we’ll be looking at her artwork, and how it relates to her personal sense of style…

Ilona hosted one of the very first instructional painting shows in the ‘70s. Suited each episode in a different colored caftan, she would do a dance at the beginning and end of each show to remind her viewers that painting should be fun. Criticized at first for her theatrics, viewers later wrote in to the TV station asking where to get such outfits and thanking her for the inspiration.

“I like to give advice to my students, things I wish people would have told me!”:

“Don’t show your first few paintings to your mate, lover, parents, family…they may be either too encouraging, or too discouraging. Tell them you are not ready yet.” She suggests that when you do show your work, however, “everyone needs a Philadelphia lawyer”, as in someone on the other side… a Devil’s Advocate.


Since so many artists are said to be painting a version of themselves with such emotionally charged portraits, I ask Ilona if in fact each of these studies are a side of her personality.
She says, “None of them are me. There is no need for ego at this stage in y life…. I enjoy myself, I know who I am and am contented… no need to toot my own horn, I’m just proud of what I am now, because it was a hard road.”

(one of Ilona’s commissions, singer Chris Connor, for the cover of her DVD)

Ilona started by painting in the Impressionist style, studying at The Art Students League next to the Russian Tea Room on 57th st (where she also lived, after WWII). Until the fire in her apartment that destroyed most of her paintings, Ilona spent her time uptown painting from models and still life. It was traumatic to lose so much, but with Ilona’s past, she said it would be unhealthy to look back. Now in the West Village, Ilona practices her art in the apartment she’s rented for 55 years.
She admits her apartment does not have a kitchen, so she doesn’t cook (nor has she ever).
“My father once said: If somebody does it better than you, let them.”

She approaches new bodies of work as “experiments, new phases to learn from and grow with… they are the beginning of a new idea”. What impresses me most about her approach to the hardships she has endured is her ability to look at each tragedy as a chance to start anew, or to try something challenging. Of course Ilona has 90 years of perspective, but it’s rare we hear a woman of this age being so open and willing to grow. She claims to be set in her ways, but also open to new ideas… her artwork says it all.


Ilona’s new series she calls “Nouveau Deco”, based on paintings Art Nouveau and Art deco. She draws her subjects with pastel, but adds graphic backgrounds and strengthens the women so the settings don’t overpower them. She says someone described her women as “so vulnerable you want to guide them across the street”. She likes this, “they can screw around all they like but they are still innocent and untouched”.

Another series, “Blue Stockings”, was inspired by Ilona’s trip to Paris. Here she reinvented Lautrec’s women with “ugly faces and changed them to be naughty and funny”. Each one has a caption like “What, not again?!”


Approximately three years ago, Ilona developed a stinging pain in her neck, disabling most of her activities (dancing, singing, painting…)
She tells me this is an exaggerated version of a tremor she had as a 5 year old in Berlin and then during the war, when the Nazis would knock on her family’s door to search the house. More recently, the disability became more acute, in the form of a crippling pain that led her to discontinue painting.

During this time, Ilona managed drawing daily self-portraitswhile sitting in her bathroom- the best light in the house. This is the place where she does her most detailed work, the application of her eyelashes, so this is where the drawings would take place.

(Ilona shows me some of her utensils, under the best light, in the bathroom)

She wanted to document the pain, to see if this process would heal. (These 54 works, her “Pain Portraits”, were recently featured in a traveling show in the US and have been shown around the world).

After 8 months of unsuccessful doctors’ treatments, Ilona started swimming daily in the cold and salty bay near her home in Provincetown (where she teaches painting every summer). Swimming, of course, with eyelashes and shadow, with head above water. She claims the pain “vanished, like nothing”…. “You see? Something good can come of something bad”.

“I’m so glad that I did them because at this point I almost forgot that I had it (the pain)”.

(During my first visit with Ilona, she told me a story as we compared lipsticks)

Ilona’s most admirable quality is how much she absorbs, and how open she is to new friendships and ideas. As I was leaving her studio the other day, she suggested we meet up with a few of my girlfriends, “just like Sex and the City”.

She says: “This show was important because they had four characters who were all very different, none all good or all bad… they were all pretty, they all look as good as the other but each with different personalities that are recognizable. They were all human beings, real humans who are not perfect.”

I asked Ilona which character she would be (as the average girl of my generation would ask, admittedly):
“Each one had merit. At my age, you ask me a question but the answer will have so many factors. People want to identify with one thing, but that I am not. You change with different situations!”

*If you are interested in having Ilona paint your portrait, please let us know, we’d be thrilled to put you in touch. xo

Debra Chooses Our “Thrifted and Gifted” Contest Winner!

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[Photos of Debra and Text by Ari Seth Cohen]
Debra Rapoport(pictured in some of her amazing outfits above) has chosen a lucky winner for the Advanced Style “Thrifted and Gifted Contest” for an afternnon of thrift store shopping and style advice! She was deeply inspired by all of your submissions and has been responding to each person individually. You can read the full winning submission from Jean on Debra’s Page located the sidebar and continue to email her for advice on fashion, food and fun @ Debrathenutritionista@gmail.com. Here is a a short excerpt from Jean’s entry:

“A few weeks ago, one very serendipitous evening, I happened upon the blog “Advanced Style” and something shifted. A spark was ignited. Could this be a soul stirring? Can a style blog be powerful enough to awaken a passion so deeply buried? Looking at all those luscious posts, the confidence and twinkling eyes,post after post of folks who were indeed GROWN UP…. My inner muse who began blossoming in the 70’s , is now an inspired woman on the thresh-hold of continuing change.”

Congratulations to Jean and Thank You to all who entered!

Ari Seth Cohen

An Afternoon Stroll with Dancer Jacquie “Tajah” Murdock

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[Photos: Ari Seth Cohen, Text: Maayan Zilberman]

We first introduced you to the regal and statuesque 80-yr-old Jacquie Tajah Murdock earlier this season, when Ari met her while walking in Manhattan. She was casually dressed in rolled up trousers and a Chanel-like baby blue jacket. You were all so taken with her elegance that we thought it would be extra special if we brought you a more in depth look at her wardrobe, and showed you what inspires her.

Jacquie, or “Tajah” as she is also called, was one of the original jazz dancers at the Apollo Theater and Savoy Ballroom in Harlem, a part of her life you’d find hard to miss if you visit her apartment in the Village. Her most vivid memories are of these times, dancing with some of the greats and being photographed in gowns of every fabric, length, and color…. She tells us that she has always loved fashion, and describes her personal style as “glamorous”, and “just being me”. Some of you may think “just being me” is more flamboyant if you have the heart of a dancer, but for Jacquie, dressing up can mean anything from a splash of rhinestones on the lapel of a collar to a wide rimmed summer hat while strolling through the courtyard.


Jacquie loves wearing flowers in her hair like Billie Holiday. She also loves her white petticoat, which once worn as a layer of a dance costume, now appears as an everyday spring “peasant style” skirt.

She insists that this look is not complete without her Kangol hat to match the coral suit.
“It’s what all the younger women are wearing these days, I see them out in the Village with this kind of hat.” Jacquie loves to thrift shop, (where she got this designer ensemble), but admits she likes very expensive things too… “though price has nothing to do with it!”


We love how Jacquie has all of her inspirations around her, like an artist who creates a mood around them.

Jacquie’s smile shone brightest when we sat out on her new balcony and talked about how dressing up makes her feel. We were especially excited to hear how she shares the same ideas some of us at Advanced Style like to address… that dressing up and playing with clothes and color and accessories can be healing as you age. Jacquie emphasizes education, it being a big part of staying true to yourself and your style as you mature. We applaud her, and look forward to learning more!